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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-01-04 05:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #5113 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5113 ⌋

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Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2021-01-05 09:05 am (UTC)(link)
People are not assholes just for pointing out the truth. Honestly all this 'overempathy' 'tender bellied lovelies' stuff sounds as if y'all just want to believe you're better than everyone else.That anon was giving good advice and saying they should be ignored is of no actual help to OP whatever.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2021-01-05 10:20 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, if the shoe fits. People are aholes for being caustically rude in a way that they know is cruel. first commenter actually even wrote they knew they were being cruel. It takes like 2 seconds to rephrase to be kinder.

People who are superfeelers/emotionally divergent unfortunately feel the highest highs and the lowest lows easier than other people. I never implied that made us better. If anything I actually implied it makes us so much worse bc we can easily be pushed into reaction, and unfortunately there are a lot of people in the world who have and will use this against us. Have you ever had someone abuse you into feeling like shit, bc they knew they could do so with only a couple words? I have. It's horrible. Have you ever literally been emotionally incapacitated by a stranger flippantly being rude to you? I have. It feels like your dying inside. I wish I didn't feel as deeply as I do, it would have made my life easier. It would have made me functional as a fcking human being.

Also, I NEVER said anon should have been ignored. Read my comment again. Wow, can't believe I'm writing to someone who doesn't know how to read.