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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-01-27 04:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #5136 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5136 ⌋

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[Romeo + Juliet (1996)/John Wick]


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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-01-28 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
I'm fucking sick for standing up for someone despite their fucked up fandom interests. Friendship is the only thing that matters, right? Fiction is just fiction, right? Well okay, how about you be a fucking decent human being first too?

I'm so sad that I let myself be deceived by such a fucking poisonous liar who tore apart my fandom experience. I trusted this person, but instead when they were given even a tiny bit of mod power, they went sicko mode. Fucking virtue-signaling racism kink haver, ageist piece of shit. Gay fetishism and transfetishism-enjoying bastard who enjoys shaming me in direct conversations while being coy about. Fucking gaslighter. I hate you. I will write a callout post about you. I feel like the husband in the Sixth Sense who found out their wife poisoned and killed their child. I'm sick to my stomach.

Gah. I needed to get my thoughts out. I'm trying to reclaim my own life after dealing with such a horrible person. The red flags were all there, but I feel so bad for being so ignorant and trusting...

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-01-28 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
Holy shit, me, how did you time-travel 19 years into the future? Go back, or keep going forward! It sucks here!

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-01-28 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
No choice but to go forward, I suppose! I'm tired of living in the past. :')

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-01-28 08:24 am (UTC)(link)
Before you do anything, I really think you should work on separating the bad things this person has done to you from the fact that they have kinks you don't like. Were they forcing their kinks on you? Then that's the problem. It would be a problem with any kink if you didn't want it, even an "unproblematic" one like feet or something. The problem is not what their kinks are.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-01-28 11:40 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding this.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-01-28 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)
OP here. It's tough because I really don't think I'll ever be okay with things like race kink, nor transfetishism, especially when it's so caught up in real life concerns. I had asked them to stop because it made me and others uncomfortable, but they kept being weird and fetishy in vague sfw ways in the same topics. I'm not sure it's ever possible to have this sort of fetishy approach to certain things while being a normal person about it.

In this person's case, there was a shit ton of irony because they were the most hyperbolic and vocally touchy about the irl transfetishism and racism, meanwhile they kept making... extremely uncomfortable content.