[ SECRET POST #5141 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5141 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Secrets you don't want to make...

[(Anonymous)]

TW Dead of loved ones



I never talk about this but some 10 years ago I lost one of my best friends' in an accident (not only her but her entire family was gone as well). She was 19yo and had a lot to live. It was a long way to recovery but I'm getting by.

Now every time I see a character in a series or movie going through grief, I can't help but flinch. Not because I feel for them, but because their grief is so badly acted it gives me legit second-hand embarrasement. Yes, I know everyone goes through grief different ways, but skipping the entire 5 stages and going straight to bawling feels so unrealistic to me now.

Secret because I sound so insensitive.

Re: Secrets you don't want to make...

[(Anonymous)]

I lost a friend in a similar way and immediately burst into tears and kept crying for days (which got very painful). It obviously doesn't speak to you, but that doesn't mean it doesn't speak to someone else.

Re: Secrets you don't want to make...

[(Anonymous)]

OP

I'm so sorry about your loss, anon. And you're right, people do grieve differently and I shouldn't judge just based on my own experience.