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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-02-26 07:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #5166 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5166 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.
[Spirited Away]



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02.
[Jerma985]


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03. [WARNING for mention of rape]

[Faction Paradox]


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04. [WARNING for mention of sexual harassment/possibly underage]

[David Boreanz and Alyson Hannigan]


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05. [WARNING for mention of sexual abuse/grooming]



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06. [WARNING for mention of sexual harassment]



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07. [WARNING for mention of sexual harassment/abuse, cannibalism fetish]



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08. [WARNING for mention of sexual harassment/domestic violence]

[Trent Reznor, Marilyn Manson]


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09. [WARNING for mention of domestic violence/abuse]



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10. [WARNING for mention of sexual violence/noncon]



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11. [WARNING for mention of rape]

[Eiyu Senki]



























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #739.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Vent Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-02-27 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly, I don't think she cares enough about her life to stray away from it just because she knows he could kill her and on some level she may even want it.

Maybe being honest could be the best approach for reaching out: honesty about not wanting to hear anything about her "crush" anymore because it's clearly not even a crush, love isn't about choking eachother, it hurts you to see it unveiling and feel unable to do anything, and you can't reason it or relate to her feelings on this matter. I'd be rude but yeah she needs to be brought back to reality.

Re: Vent Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-02-27 08:51 am (UTC)(link)
"Honestly, I don't think she cares enough about her life to stray away from it just because she knows he could kill her and on some level she may even want it."

Can we fucking stop with this when it's well-documented how love-bombing and such works???

Re: Vent Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-02-27 09:31 am (UTC)(link)
DA - When the abuse has reached the level of being choked to near unconsciousness, then no, AYRT is right. This person is placing more value on being "loved" by their abuser than they are on their own life.

She may truly believe he loves her, but she also knows he might kill her.

Re: Vent Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-02-27 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
Having been there: yeah, because you've been largely isolated and gaslighted until you don't fucking know which way is up. It's not about not valuing your life, you judgmental piece of shit who hasn't ever suffered this level of abuse, or valuing being loved more. It's that when you have it repeated to you enough that this is what you deserve, that you're a horrible person, that you're not going to do better, that these incidents are all your fault and why can't you just do better so I won't hurt you...

Like, you're approaching this from the wrong angle.