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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-03-07 05:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #5175 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5175 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-08 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Thinking about it that way, there's kind of an...unconscious ableism, maybe, in these kinds of stories treating it like a choice? I dunno if that's the right way to put it, but it occurs to me that plenty of people *couldn't* choose to live in the past with their lover because they require modern medicine to survive, and I don't think I've ever seen any of these types of stories acknowledge that because the heroines are always conveniently perfectly healthy and don't even so much as need glasses or anything.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2021-03-08 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
That's a good point. I need glasses. But more importantly, I have asthma and migraines that require medication and would probably kill me and certainly would keep me bedridden if I were in the past. And my mental illness would quite possibly make me want to kill myself without my meds. Not exactly the path to a great life if I were sent to the past.
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[personal profile] erinptah 2021-03-08 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
Mmmyep.

Not only does the staying-in-the-past protagonist not already rely on modern medical care, we're supposed to take for granted that she will never need modern medical care. It would make the ending awfully unhappy if you imagine her dying horribly from an infected cut, or a heart attack, or a bad tooth, or appendicitis...so you're supposed to assume there's no way any of that can happen.

It's all tied up with this cultural assumption that the natural state of society is to provide everything a Good Person needs. And so, unmanageably bad medical situations -- whether it's an acute crisis, or a chronic health issue, or whatever -- can only happen to Bad People who somehow deserve it.

/already relies on modern medical care
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[personal profile] philstar22 2021-03-08 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
The weird thing to me is that my one friend who is most into this show is a disabled friend who has a chronic illness that requires modern medicine and still makes even modern life difficult for her to manage. I'm never going to have this conversation with her. Not going to ruin her fantasy. But I just don't get it myself.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-08 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, if I had been born more than 10 years earlier than I was, I'd be dead. The treatment for the cancer I had wasn't developed until the 1980s, and simply removing it would have also killed me.

The only positive side, I guess, is fewer allergies in pre-industrialised societies. (Other diseases seemed less but only because we weren't living long enough to get them, but allergies actually are more common and increasing in developed countries.)

(Anonymous) 2021-03-08 06:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. For the past 7 years I've had controlled high blood pressure and without the blood pressure medication I take, my lifespan would probably be shortened. Multiple doctors have told me there's really nothing I can do besides take the medication because I'm not overweight, eating a heart-unhealthy diet, or inactive. If I was thrown back in time before the right kinds of drugs were available, I might not make it to old age.

I also use glasses/contacts so being too far in the past would mean I would have to navigate the world with pretty shitty eyesight.

I'm otherwise very healthy and look young for my age, but I would be kind of screwed if I were stuck in the past.