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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-03-07 05:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #5175 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5175 ⌋

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Re: Based on #6

[personal profile] philstar22 2021-03-08 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
We never even got sex ed. We were split into boys and girls. We each got taught about our own body parts and about baby gestation (and it was explained as babies, not as fetuses). Then boys got the "sex is wrong, here's how to deal with temptation" lecture and girls got the "don't tempt boys, we know you don't understand sex because all you want is romance, but wait for the boys to ask you out because as men they lead" lecture. Oh how I hate that school.

Given that I had already started thinking about sex before we got the lectures, I thought there was something wrong with me. Fanfic and a few late night tv shows I caught because I couldn't sleep were my sex education. And then porn. Porn surprisingly was how I first learned about condoms and began to think of them as normal. Eventually I figured out that it was perfectly normal for girls to have a sex drive too.

Re: Based on #6

(Anonymous) 2021-03-08 06:13 pm (UTC)(link)
My school was like that, too. Funny because well, 10 year old me only knew she wasn't interested and was slightly annoyed at anyone thinking she might want romance - I wanted to go to space! And play PSOne - but from there to "well, maybe I'm a-spec" took a long... Long while, and in that long while many a-spec girls get fooled into thinking they are prudes and get into abusive relationships and all that, and I know I was self-hating enough to do ALL of it. So I really thank NANA for at least slapping some sense into me like "being single's better than in bad company".