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fandomsecrets2021-03-12 07:33 pm
[ SECRET POST #5180 ]
⌈ Secret Post #5180 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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06. [SPOILERS for Brand upon the Brain!]
[WARNING for mention of suicide]

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07. [SPOILERS for End Roll]
[WARNING for mention of suicide]

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08. [WARNING for probable discussion of sexual assault?]

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09. [WARNING for mention of sexual assault/rape]

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10. [WARNING for discussion of rape?]

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11. [WARNING for mention of sexual harassment]

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12. [WARNING for mention of domestic violence]

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13. [WARNING for discussion of pedophilia]

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-13 08:30 am (UTC)(link)This here! Invisibuffy set the tone for their sexual interactions. She was in an incredibly bad place, yes, but she went looking for an outlet and decided that manhandling and fucking Spike, without asking anyone, including him, for their opinion, was the perfect combination of letting go and taking control. Spike went to her place, Spike got physical with her, Spike tried to have violent sex with her. Same script. And, it's been a while so correct me if I'm wrong, but iirc once it turned out that Buffy wasn't following script and turning out to be into it after initial resistance, he stopped.
Their relationship was incredibly volatile, full of violence, non-discussed boundaries, and lack of consent as foreplay. It was inevitable that one of them would push when the other wasn't in the mood to be pushed. This doesn't make Spike attempting to rape her okay, but the action doesn't exist in a vacuum and that relationship was mutually abusive.