[ SECRET POST #5187 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5187 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Gnosia]


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[I Care a Lot (on Netflix)]


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[X-Files]


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[Lolita Fashion Youtuber Tyler Willis]


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09. [SPOILERS for The Story of Yanxi Palace]



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10. [WARNING for discussion of pedophilia/child molestation]

























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #742.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Wait, what happened? Lovely Lor liked a picture and it sparked some senseless drama?

[(Anonymous)]

Lor misclicked and accidentally liked some instagram post from a lolita makeup artist who was also a Trumper. This upset a lot of people who apparently have never misclicked on anything in their lives who proceeded to drag her. She did a massivly bonkers over the top apology video itemizing every racially awkward moment she's had over the past few years and apologizing for everything under the sun.

Tyler was appalled at 1) the outrage people were aiming at Lor over a fucking misclick and 2)Lor's pathological capitulation to these dramamongers. From the sounds of it Tyler and Lor argued a lot over it behind the scenes, and Tyler eventually made a video addressing the situation. Her take on the situation is mostly reasonable, but I think that her being Lor's friend warped her perspective.

Lor really didn't want Tyler to make the video, and was upset specifically about Tyler's criticism of Lor's response.

I'm not really sure what the situation between them is presently, whether their friendship is OK or not.

[(Anonymous)]

Tyler also decided to use her usual 'snarky insults' type of comedy and basically pissed off a large segment of the POC lolita community by taking screenshots out of context and painting them all as reactionary bullies. I think Lor's apology was needlessly over the top but Tyler went way too far in her defense too (I agree with the secret maker, she should have focused more on the whole para-social relationship thing and she should have done the video more seriously). It's also not the first time Tyler's made a video against Lor's wishes.

Judging from some comments made on Lor's Twitter recently I would guess they've either broken the friendship or are at least taking a break from it and honestly, it's sad but I also understand. Wanting to protect your friend is admirable but constantly ignoring her agency and doing the thing she asked you not to do is a shitty friend move.

[(Anonymous)]

To be fair, it sounds like they probably were reactionary bullies.