[ SECRET POST #5187 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5187 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Gnosia]


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[I Care a Lot (on Netflix)]


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[X-Files]


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[Lolita Fashion Youtuber Tyler Willis]


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09. [SPOILERS for The Story of Yanxi Palace]



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10. [WARNING for discussion of pedophilia/child molestation]

























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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Sure, of course, that's not the point that I'm making. Anon's argument was that my analogy was bad because I'm basically saying that sex causes "illness and disease to spread across the board" if not done hygienically - well, it's literally true that sex causes illness and disease to spread if not done hygienically! It's a fact that you agree with! That's an uncontroversial fact that no one in this thread finds offensive or ridiculous. So I don't really see how that really represents the problem with what I'm saying.

But more than that, I think it actually makes a really strong argument for what I'm saying. Not wearing a condom doesn't mean that you're directly going to catch an STD. But it increases the risk significantly, so it's safer to wear a condom. And that doesn't mean, because you want people to have cleaner, safer sex that you're an anti-sex puritan who thinks sex is dirty. Rather, it's the more responsible thing to do - it's a way to limit the risk. Well, that's pretty much what I'm saying about relationships - albeit obviously on a more general level. A relationship with a significant power imbalance is more likely to lead to an abusive situation. So people should generally avoid relationships with significant power imbalances to reduce that risk. It doesn't mean that you shouldn't have sexual relationships. And it doesn't mean that if you have a relationship with a power imbalance, you're automatically a monster. But it is the best practice that we should, in general, adopt.

[esteefee]

Why are you arguing something that has nothing to do with the original comment of this thread? Honestly. You certainly aren't saying that a happy one-night stand between an 18 year old and a 22 year old that results in no trauma on either side will cause diseased hygiene. You also aren't really hitting the OPs post. You're arguing a straw man. Enjoy shouting into the void.

[(Anonymous)]

Because I don't agree that "I fully believe that antis are all the way they are because they can't get laid. It's all sex gone sour. They can't stand that people have and enjoy sex that they can't, so they have to poison and vilify it in order to pretend they're "above" it and feel better about themselves. It's tragic, honestly."

[(Anonymous)]

I don't agree with that, either. But I do think they are a bunch of kids afraid of sex. And I think it has to do with the puritan movement in this country (fed by Fox and Friends) that's tied into the conservative movement. Slut-talking and misogyny is very useful to them, and the first step is to make young women fearful of sex.

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed.