[ SECRET POST #5199 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5199 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Not in real life, but even as a woman, some of my fantasies involve very one-sided relationships. I don't think it is always bad unless it filters into real life. I do think it can, and it often does with especially men. But I don't think all one-sided fantasies are bad.

[(Anonymous)]

Strongly agree. I think the fantasy of someone who loves you (the hypothetical you) unconditionally no matter how much you suck is extremely common and understandable. And it's a perfectly fine fantasy as long as you don't expect that kind of thing from real people in real life.

[meadowphoenix]

I think they're interesting because I think that again a lot of people fantasize about one-sided relationships (this might be the main aspect of the most common fantasies no matter what other more specific aspects abound), and I actually think human beings are not that good at naturally balancing investment in other people with the investment they're getting (and then misogyny exacerbates this). I think people are already doing the one-sided thing in real life, without needing a fantasy, in order words, so while I think the fantasy is useful for a lot of reasons, I couldn't say it's good either.