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Re: Were you the weird kid, in retrospect?
Funny how you see yourself, and then suddenly find out how (some) other people see you, and it's so strange and different and frankly baffling.
Re: Were you the weird kid, in retrospect?
(Anonymous) 2021-04-04 02:45 am (UTC)(link)1: Found out later in life that apparently self-confidence is intimidating. And even if everyone else thought I was an oddball, I didn't care what they thought. (As someone else mentioned in this thread, undiagnosed Asperger's probably played a role in that.) I guess it's hard to enjoy bullying someone who doesn't really react to it. "You look like a bug!" "*shrug* Okay." Where can you go from there? ;)
2: I can't think of a way to say it that doesn't sound arrogant, but... there were "the smart kids", and then I had teachers going "........" at me pretty regularly when I bothered to speak up in class. Probably the other kids also were a little freaked out, or maybe just worried because the teachers tended to like me an awful lot.
So there are possible explanations, I suppose, but I still find it kind of bizarre that I wasn't actively bullied more than I was, seeing as I was so frail I had to quit school in 9th grade because I couldn't make it through a full day. :P
Re: Were you the weird kid, in retrospect?
People who don't react like you want them to react can be real downers, for bullies, heh.
Plus, i read a lot, and do remember people in about every class (not math, omg, not math) saying 'as her, she knows everything'. But i would just get so bored, and read ahead in the textbooks....
Re: Were you the weird kid, in retrospect?
(Anonymous) 2021-04-04 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)Oddly enough it seems my frailty and weirdness should by all rights have gotten me physically bullied, but that really never happened either - except one time there was a kid that punched me in the head in middle school, on the bus. I was sitting there going "........." because I could not believe that just happened, staring after him, and as he walked back to the back of the bus, like ten other kids punched HIM, and then beat him up when we got off the bus. o_o
So I guess I was the weird kid, but sort of the token weirdo. No one actually wanted to hang with me or even talk to me, but everyone knew me, and hey - I was their weirdo.
Re: Were you the weird kid, in retrospect?
:D