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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-04-09 05:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #5208 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5208 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Shoot 'Em Up (resized)]


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[Banana Fish]


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05. [SPOILERS for Kids Baking Championship]



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06. [SPOILERS for Big Little Lies S2]
[WARNING for discussion of rape]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of suicide]

[ID: Invaded]


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09. [WARNING for discussion of noncon (probably?)]
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Re: Probably Unpopular Opinions

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
DA - I'm reminded of an article I read where a woman accused a minor celebrity (I think he was a comedian?) of sexual assault, but by her own accounting of events it was basically just 'went on a date, went home with him, gave him an unsolicited blowjob, and... felt vaguely icky afterwards'. That was it. She didn't even explain how he was supposed to have acted differently, except perhaps by turning down the blowjob. It was dumb as hell.

Re: Probably Unpopular Opinions

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
That was not remotely what happened. What happened was, he made himself a sex pest. As in, a person who attempts to push and coax and wheedle their way into someone's pants when the other person has already made it extremely clear they're not into it. As in, a person who only cares about consent insofar as it means they can't be charged with rape, but doesn't actually care how the encounter is experienced by the other person.

I didn't agree with that woman posting her experience with Aziz's name attached, because as much as his behavior was scuzzy, I don't agree with shaming someone in front of an audience of millions for merely being scuzzy.

That said, fuck you and your gross mischaracterizing of her account.

Re: Probably Unpopular Opinions

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
*big shrug* What I wrote what what I recalled. I did not intentionally misrepresent anything, and it really doesn't reflect well on you to automatically assume ill intent on the part of an anonymous stranger, under circumstances such as these.
~ Signed, a woman who was talked into putting her mouth on a dick, aged 8 ♥

Re: Probably Unpopular Opinions

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
Since there was no sexual assault in that situation, there was no victim, and therefore I have no responsibility to believe the writer. If she were my friend talking about a creep she had a date with, I'd probably believe her, but she's a rando.
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Re: Probably Unpopular Opinions

[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2021-04-11 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
For the record, that's not what she described. She described a date with a celebrity who very specifically and deliberately painted himself as someone who understand the dangers of women with men well enough to not be such a person, and reiterated that on the date as reassurance, and then proceed to pressure her repeatedly for sex, follow her around the room when she moved away, including into the bathroom, which blocked her exit, and into a corner, with brief intermissions of this behavior to tell her that he would stop/be considerate of her nos, before resuming aggressive behavior. The blowjob was very much a "maybe he'll stop and he'll go back to the nice dude he was" action in her description. Personally, she described a heavily coerced sexual encounter imo, but because there didn't seem to be socially construed violent intent on his part or a block of her leaving the apartment, except those times he did block her in personally, or any penetrative sex, she was subject to ridicule.

I'm not surprised at your description what you remember, but honestly, for media literary reasons, I urge you to think about why that's all you do.