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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-04-14 06:45 pm
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[personal profile] greghousesgf 2021-04-14 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I never understood the stereotype of gay men supposedly being hostile to women (unless they worked in the fashion industry).

(Anonymous) 2021-04-14 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I've met plenty of misogynistic gay men. They aren't magically exempt from the shitty social constructs contributing to misogyny just because they sleep with men.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-14 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
But neither are they more misogynistic surely?
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[personal profile] greghousesgf 2021-04-15 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
my point exactly

(Anonymous) 2021-04-15 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Different anon

Standard misogyny - any "use" for us women types = real obvious misogyny.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-15 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
I've seen incredibly bad examples of mysogynistic people among gay and straight (and maybe bisexual? asexual? whatever?) dudes, but it's not like I haven't seen any mysogynistic woman ever either, so. Meh.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-15 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
Not more misogynistic, but it comes out in different ways.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-15 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding this. I've also never hear anyone suggest gay men are more misogynistic than straight men—just that they can be misogynistic too.

It's a big world, I'm sure there are people out there arguing gay men are more misogynistic than straight men. But it's definitely not what most people are saying.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-15 07:04 am (UTC)(link)
this. what original commenter might be picking up on is people complaining about gay men thinking they are exempt from misogyny because they're not attracted to women?

(Anonymous) 2021-04-15 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Arguably it's picking up on a flavor of "women are gross, am i rite" humor that's been a staple of gay (especially drag) comedy for years. Of course the other stereotype is "sassy gay best friend."

(Anonymous) 2021-04-14 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Why would anyone be into this ship if that's the case? Screw making your ship "canon", what's the point of this? To upset other people? Congrats.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-14 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah I can't say I'd be all that jazzed to find out one of the actors of a ship I liked hated women. I don't think it would put me off the ship, as I really have a heavy actor/character filter, but it wouldn't be nice to find out at the same time.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-15 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, this is me, 100%.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-15 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that's like find out they're a racist. Huge turnoff, even if I wasn't in the group being hated.
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