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fandomsecrets2021-04-28 05:27 pm
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(Anonymous) 2021-04-29 02:42 am (UTC)(link)Man, if you haven't run into this sort of infantilizing nonsense, I am genuinely envious of your good luck. I don't collect dolls, but I do have cats, and I've had people say - recently, to my mid-thirties self - that because I take good care of my cats and enjoy fostering, I'm going to be such a good mommy. Not mother, mommy. It's insanely common in pet-adjacent spaces, and I can easily believe it also springs up around doll collection, either because the people saying it are trying to be "cute" or because they're just that condescending.
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(Anonymous) 2021-04-29 11:31 am (UTC)(link)Telling an adult that keeping dressed up chunks of plastic intact makes them good parenting material is extremely weird on an entirely different level, and the number of doll collectors in this thread agreeing that it’s not normal leads me to believe that OP hangs out with a particularly unhinged crowd.
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(Anonymous) 2021-04-29 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)I'm not sure where you're getting "it's normal" from "yeah, people do in fact say that in exactly those infantilizing terms", friend.
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(Anonymous) 2021-04-29 01:27 pm (UTC)(link)