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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-06-20 02:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #5280 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5280 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-06-20 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Because of sexual double standards/misogyny/homophobia basically, as many people see the act of giving oral as submission and the act of a "lesser-than". I mean, according to that school of thought, even when there's two men involved it's only considered "gay" (gay is bad and gay is also feminine in this school of thought) for the one giving the blowjob. And look at guys like DJ Khaled, who say things like "there are different rules for men, and women should praise their men". That is a VERY common attitude among straight men (and there are straight women who also have this attitude). They feel it is beneath them but fine for their partner to do because they view their partners as beneath them, too.

(Anonymous) 2021-06-20 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Probably.

I just want to say, for younger/more inexperienced women reading this, I've never EVER dated a guy who didn't want to go down, so you don't have to put up with a guy who won't if that's what you want.

And I have dated older guys, military guys, bros who lift (lol) etc., not men who tend to tout their own "sensitive,feminist" cred. (Not that there's anything wrong with that, I'm just saying that I've never been with a so-called manly type who's afraid to put his mouth where my money is.

(Anonymous) 2021-06-21 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Seriously. Plenty of guys love eating pussy. No need to settle or accept refusal/discomfort as the norm.