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fandomsecrets2021-07-18 04:01 pm
[ SECRET POST #5308 ]
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Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-07-18 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)A = intensely feeling, but emotionally constipated person
B = deeply in love with A
B tells A that they need to communicate their emotions, feelings, problems, or they will walk away. A can't because they are terrified of being hurt if B can't take it. B walks away (usually temporarily).
Frankly, I think this is absolutely healthy and reasonable for B and A. A and B can't have a good relationship if A is always operating from a place of fear. I still end up irrationally angry at B. 10% is like "B can't be A's therapist every time there's some conflict between the two" but 90% of me is like "B should KNOW A has never learned conflict in a safe space; why try a relationship with them when you know this is going to be a problem" It's very frustrating.