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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-08-28 04:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #5349 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5349 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Not having sex but getting off on smut is called celibacy not asexuality.

DA

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Celibacy implies you have sexual attraction to people that you aren't acting on i.e. you are attracted to people but are choosing to not have sex with them for whatever reason. Asexual people aren't attracted to other people at all. Being turned on by the idea of two characters having sex, or being able to vicariously relate to them, doesn't mean you want to have sex with them or are attracted to them yourself.

By your logic, you're going to claim lesbians who like BL or gay porn are secretly straight and into men. Which they're not. What they like to watch =/= what they'd want to do in real life.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
DA
You're an idiot who knows nothing about asexuality. But go on, explain to me how I'm supposed to feel about sex.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
That is not what celibacy means.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah no. I have zero desire to have sex ever. I'm not attracted to people (or characters). I just like shipping fictional characters. I want them to have sex with each other but don't project myself into the situation at all. (Unlike for the example the OP of the first secret)

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I am definitely not asexual but I don't project myself onto the characters either.

I usually find both members of a slash pair attractive, but I'm a straight woman without a penis, so I'm reading the story as a voyeur only. I do find some of these stories hot but I don't think about being "in" the story at all.

It's like watching a scary movie. I don't imagine I'm fighting zombies. I'm watching other people fight zombies. It might be scary, but I ain't there!

(Anonymous) 2021-08-28 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
It might be hard for you to imagine, but not everybody gets turned on reading smut.

I don't. I never had - I read it because its interesting to me when there's a plot to go with the smut, or the smut is really kinky/weird which is entertaining to me.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-29 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
Incorrect. Not being sexually attracted to people and not wanting to have sex, but getting off on smut, is called aegosexuality, actually. Or Autochorissexuality, if you wanna go old school with it.

Also, your definition of celibacy needs work.