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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2009-02-25 05:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #782 ]


⌈ Secret Post #782 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 07 pages, 165 secrets from Secret Submission Post #112.
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karel: (danielcraig; my restless soul)

Re: this is insane

[personal profile] karel 2009-02-26 06:51 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly want to throw my two cents in here and say that almost every single girl (save for my best friend and her family -- they kept me from "hating" girls completely) I've known up until the past couple of years (college is so different, and I mean that in a good way) has lied to my face in order to hurt me, has talked about my behind my back, and even my own sisters (one of them younger than me) have talked down to me as though I were the scum of the earth. I've had girls steal guys right out from in front of my face that they didn't even like.

Boys were much more honest with me and, for a while, were the only people who would invite me along with them for social activities (and no, it was not in hopes of getting into my pants. I wish this idea would die a quick death).

I'm happy that I'm meeting girls that are disconfirming years of mistrust for me (though it's still very difficult not to be apprehensive), but I can understand where the OP is coming from. Sometimes, if there's something "just not right" about you (for me, it was money and looks -- I had neither up until college, when I "bloomed"), nothing you can do can put you into the good graces of high school girls.

Re: this is insane

[identity profile] 3goodtimes.livejournal.com 2009-02-26 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you had those experiences with girls, and I'm glad you're finally meeting some nice ones now. It's not so much I think there are no bitchy women. I definitely don't think that. I just feel it's unfair of people to generalize all women based on their own experiences. I feel like that's what the OP of this thread was doing.

Also, I'm overweight (have been since junior high) and in the lower income bracket, yet I didn't have any trouble from other women. I suppose I was just very lucky. Part of it may have been the school I went to itself, which emphasized loving others and loving/respecting yourself.

Again, so sorry you had to mess with such awful people.