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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-09-25 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #5377 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5377 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-09-25 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
So basically, by your logic, Lan Wangji should have had zero opinions, morals, or personality of his own. Instead he should just have blindly thrown all in with Wei Ying from the start, just because he was attracted to him. Never mind that LWJ was the only one in the whole cultivation world to stand by his side when WWX returned.

Your interpretation allows for absolutely no characterisation on LWJs side and is not at all a healthy interpretation of what a relationship should be. Yeesh.

(Anonymous) 2021-09-25 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2021-09-26 06:36 am (UTC)(link)
it doesn't say logistical or moral support, the secret says EMOTIONAL support

to me it reads like OP just doesn't like the Stern Cold Aloof Love Interest trope and feels like actually saying a feeling out loud and smiling at your partner is, yknow, something they want for the character they DO like, which sounds a lot more healthy than whatever you're projecting onto them

'by your logic' - you're just wildly making up a strawman of your own invention here. it's not that he shouldn't have a personality of his own, it's that the personality he has is unpleasant

(Anonymous) 2021-09-26 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
^^^ THIS

(Anonymous) 2021-09-26 09:29 am (UTC)(link)
You seem to have a strange view on what constitutes a healthy interpretation of what a relationship should be.

(Anonymous) 2021-09-26 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Omplete subjugation of your own opinions and morals the instant you realise you're attracted to someone is NOT a healthy relationship.

(Anonymous) 2021-09-26 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I don’t think that’s what OP suggested though?