[ SECRET POST #5411 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5411 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Vshojo, Ironmouse, Projekt Melody]


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[Never Mind the Buzzcocks]


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06. [SPOILERS for Final Fantasy VIII]




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07. [WARNING for discussion of transphobia]

[Dave Chapelle's "The Closer"]


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08. [WARNING for discussion of child sexual abuse]




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09. [WARNING for discussion of bullying]




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10. [WARNING for discussion of underage ships]

[Digimon Tamers]



























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #774.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

You’re coming off as a bit aggressive to OP, considering you don’t know how much they’ve tried to communicate. They might have, and you seem to be assuming they haven’t. And some of your language seems to put too much blame on OP for this situation.

[(Anonymous)]

i don't think they're coming off as aggressive at all.

[(Anonymous)]

“Ideally, talk to them first before you come to an anonymous space to flap your hands about how much this bothers you but you don't want to upset them. Fuck on outta here with that.”

Most of the comment was good and helpful advice, but this is what I’m referring to. This sentence is a bit too intense, and it seems to be aiming at OP just as much as the the friend. I could be wrong about intention, because it can be tough over text. But this read as aggressive in tone to me.

And it assumes that OP came here before saying anything to the friend, which we don’t know at this point. It’s possible, but I wouldn’t jump the gun about it yet. Especially because it’s completely understandable to vent in an anonymous space before confronting a friend you value with something that’s really bothering you. Especially if you’re afraid of how the friend might take it. And you’re after of losing them as a friend, even though it might possibly be for the best to go your separate ways.