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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-11-11 06:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #5424 ]


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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-11-12 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
Well....from their perspective it's about trust. It depends on how poorly their relationship ended. If one partner feels like you may not be as loyal, or may repeat something, they may want to distance themselves. I've had to do this with a friend who was more or less okay, but they didn't understand why a person I was trying to distance myself from (a mutual acquaintance, not an ex) was so toxic. They acknowledged all the shit this person has done. They even know this person has pissed off a lot of people. They still hangout together. So I just, kinda say hey and leave it at that. I even warned them that I may distance myself. That's just the way it goes. We have to protect ourselves and sometimes that means picking out who are real friends are.

No offense to you, I'm sure you mean well. But if they couldn't break up amicably, maybe there was a lot of bad stuff going on that you may not know about.