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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-11-24 04:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #5437 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5437 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-11-25 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
That's presuming someone is in better shape at 20 than 50, which reaaaaaally isn't always the case, that someone at 20 won't be completely baby-faced and that someone at 50 will be sagging all over the place and also like...what do you plan on doing as you get older, do you think?

I understand the idea of the aesthetic preference, but it just seems so artificial to me. Then again I'm over 30 so maybe it's just that 20-somethings keep getting younger.

(Anonymous) 2021-11-26 08:32 am (UTC)(link)
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I'm over 30 and 20 somethings are still way more attractive to me than people my age. Especially men, who often start losing hair when they hit 30, which isn't very attractive to me. While there are some older people, who are still attractive, there isn't as many of them as among younger people. It's sad, but I can't change my preferences, and if men can keep dating women 10 years younger than them I see no reason to be ashamed of feeling attracted to people 10 years younger than me as a woman.

(Anonymous) 2021-11-26 09:39 am (UTC)(link)
It depends how the gap spends over years.

35-25 is fine. 45-25 is dodgier. 55-25 is kind of ew. 65-25 is creepy as fuck.

Your own body is aging. Make peace with that. With your own body's changes. Seek out partners within 15 years of you on either side! They exist.

I'm 50, and I have a vast range available to me. I'll go 30 to 70 depending on interests and activity level.

(Anonymous) 2021-11-26 09:59 am (UTC)(link)
That's funny you're telling me to make peace with my aging, when I seem to be one one of the few people in this thread who have made peace with the fact that I've grown old and my body is no longer at its peak condition and sexual maturity. You're not a minor at 50, even if it's comforting for you to think that way.

(Anonymous) 2021-11-26 07:57 pm (UTC)(link)
You're not a minor at 50, even if it's comforting for you to think that way.

What a bizarre statement. Why would a 50-year-old even want to be a minor? Being a minor sucks.