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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-12-03 05:21 pm
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[ SECRET POST #5446 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5446 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:19 am (UTC)(link)
There's a HUGE difference between someone who enjoys roleplaying some really rough stuff with a fully consenting partner and an actual rapist.

You're not making the point you think you are by trying to blur this very sharp and distinct line.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you believe that his thought process was different when he was slapping around the women who enjoyed it vs the women who didn't? Obviously rape is worse than consensual sex, but that's not the subject of this debate. The subject of this debate is "is it wrong to question if the dom is always thinking nice things while they do what they do"

(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

The question isn't exactly what the dom was thinking, the question is whether consent was established and maintained.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
No? That wasn't the question in this thread.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, it was.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
DDA Exactly!

Yes, lines can be crossed when it involves painplay, but lines can also easily be crossed when it comes to other kinds of play as well, or in vanilla relationships. the problem isn't what a particular couple is into; the problem is doms who ignore the sub's boundaries. And ignoring boundaries is something that can and does happen in an abusive or manipulative way even in the gentlest scenes.

If the anon you replied to really is a dom, I'd stay the hell away from them because they are manipulative as hell here.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:05 pm (UTC)(link)
> If the anon you replied to really is a dom, I'd stay the hell away from them because they are manipulative as hell here.

Are you suggesting that behavior in and out of the bedroom is the same?

(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)
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Also, if you're really into BDSM then I'm confused why are you bringing gentle scenes vs painplay here. The topic was about service tops vs other tops. You do know that service tops can and do partake is rough play, right?

(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)
You are the one moving the goalposts.
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