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fandomsecrets2021-12-03 05:21 pm
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[ SECRET POST #5446 ]
⌈ Secret Post #5446 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)Yes, lines can be crossed when it involves painplay, but lines can also easily be crossed when it comes to other kinds of play as well, or in vanilla relationships. the problem isn't what a particular couple is into; the problem is doms who ignore the sub's boundaries. And ignoring boundaries is something that can and does happen in an abusive or manipulative way even in the gentlest scenes.
If the anon you replied to really is a dom, I'd stay the hell away from them because they are manipulative as hell here.
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(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:05 pm (UTC)(link)Are you suggesting that behavior in and out of the bedroom is the same?
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(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)Also, if you're really into BDSM then I'm confused why are you bringing gentle scenes vs painplay here. The topic was about service tops vs other tops. You do know that service tops can and do partake is rough play, right?
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(Anonymous) 2021-12-05 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)