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[ SECRET POST #5463 ]
⌈ Secret Post #5463 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 25 secrets from Secret Submission Post #782.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-12-21 03:38 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-12-21 06:17 pm (UTC)(link)I’m not saying my reply was absolutely necessary, but most replies technically aren’t either unless it’s an answer to a question. And your reply stating something that you didn’t even have to read that far in to know I’ve already acknowledged is especially unnecessary. Saying “that’s why it’s a secret, pal” would only really make sense if I said “you sound snobby and self-superior” and left it at that. With no acknowledgement that it’s a secret or that the feelings of superiority over musical taste aren’t being spoken out loud to people. I know I have a tendency to ramble, but there’s no point in replying back to me if you can’t even read my comment. Reading and replying back isn’t mandatory if you don’t want to.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-12-21 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-12-21 09:29 pm (UTC)(link)>>I get really annoyed when people treat this space for fandom secrets as if it's a soap box on which we stand to proudly proclaim ourselves publicly.
>>And folks like you holding this self expression to the... idk... rigid rules of our privacy-free society is so annoying and smothering I can't stand it sometimes.
What do you mean? I don't get anything smothering from AYRT's comment. They simply said "Same, but as long as you don't say it outloud you're fine".
Am I too dense to get why you're so upset? Am I missing something?
What kind of reply are you expecting from these secrets? I'm genuinely curious here. No judging.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-12-21 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)Here's the thing. I don't remember any of the post but the opening line. Idk if I read the whole thing or just saw "I would say you come off as snobby and self-superior if you said this out loud to anyone, or..." and didn't want to read 2 nore phone screens of the same, goodness knows it wouldn't be the first time I wasted minutes of my life. I also could have read it and it just made no impact because I s2g I read the reply 3x and none of it is sticking. A vague sense of "Explain why you don't understand my point" maybe?
But no, yeah, I won't ever remember and I couldn't convince anyone either way.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-12-21 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)No problem, nonny. Thanks for the reply.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-12-22 02:17 am (UTC)(link)And maybe more words didn’t help, I already made clear that I’m aware of that being possible. But no, your short and bitchy comments didn’t express anything any better. They don’t express anything well at all. It turns out you’re just wasting my time and yours with your nonsense. If you can’t bother to read or try understand what other people are saying, then I don’t get why you feel the need to say anything at all. Other than because you’re a dick of course.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2021-12-22 02:21 am (UTC)(link)If you’re not getting any of my comments, then just ignore the last one and forget about all this. I guess it was some kind of weird-ass misunderstanding??