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[ SECRET POST #5495 ]

⌈ Secret Post #5495 ⌋

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[Cobra Kai]

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[The City & The City by China Miéville]

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[Stassi Schroeder from Vanderpump Rules]

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[Venture Bros]

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07. [WARNING for discussion of dubcon/underage]

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Maybe I'm just sick of all the petty bullying and commenting just to piss all over someone else that goes in the comm.

Uh, did you read the comment they were replying to? Because if anyone was pissing all over things it was that person.

YEs, I read it. It was an unwarranted personal attack. Just like every single fucking other comment I post. There was no need for it and I'm sick of it. It is constant on here.

You know, if you meet an asshole once, that's on them. If everyone you meet is an asshole, there's a good chance that at least part of the problem might lie with you.

da

I can't tell if you're trolling, or are reading the wrong post, or if you sincerely believe that "you need to work on your reading comprehension" and "you make yourself look like an idiot" aren't things an asshole would say in response to a post where the commenter was doing nothing to warrant it.

I think people were irritated that they revived an ongoing ugly wank about Age of Ultron in a particularly wanky way. I can see why that person got crabby, whether it was warranted or not.

And that justifies the anon calling that person a “joyless cunt” how?

And AYRT is saying the “if everyone you meet is an asshole, you’re the asshole” at them because they said every comment they post is constantly getting personal attacks thrown at them(I’m pretty sure that’s what they meant, even though they actually said every comment they post is a personal attack?). That’s very suspicious that everyone else is always being rude to them for no reason, almost like they’re not sharing something about it what they’re actually posting. So the asshole saying is completely applicable. I have no idea why you’re coming in with the “I don’t know if you’re reading the wrong post”, because AYRT’s response makes perfect sense.

I also don’t know how you can possibly think AYRT is trolling either. Maybe don’t throw the troll accusations without rhyme or reason, because that’s troll behavior too. And it’s fine if you think "you need to work on your reading comprehension" and "you make yourself look like an idiot" are unnecessarily rude. But you’re conveniently ignoring how the “joyless cunt” response is way worse and more inflammatory.

And “things an asshole would say in response to a post where the commenter was doing nothing to warrant it.”? As AYRT explained, the commenter did do something to warrant it, or at least warrant a response in a similar vein. I do think the response could have done without the insult, and the reading comprehension remark, sure. But that bit from AoU meaning Natasha is calling herself a monster because she can’t give birth has been debunked for years now, and is only brought up by ignorant people, or people looking to dig up old wank. So there’s reason to try to nip it in the bud just in case it’s the latter, because everyone’s sick of that wank that’s been around for over 5 years. But if that anon was truly ignorant of it being debunked, then personal attacks aren’t helpful. I’m not disagreeing with that.

TL;DR, that post might not have been the best, but it’s understandable in a way. The anon and the posts by them that you’re defending are way worse though.

DA

Adding onto the anon above me, if anyone is being petty and pissing all over things, it’s you. Your response does not fit the comment you were responding to at all. In tone or intensity, not to mention vulgarity and insult wise.

Get lost. The comment included a personal attack just because they couldn't post anything nice. I'm sick of it. And I'm sick of all you petty trolls making excuses for it. If you don't like a topic or a comment then just fucking ignore it. There was no need to insult me for daring to post something you don't like. It is every single fucking time. Oh here is a thread I don't like, so I'm going to post an insult, try to kill the thread, be an ass. And if I dare to respond then I get a pile on by all you bastards. Well fuck off, it is too much. Stop making excuses for your little fucking click

You’re the one who’s coming off as a troll, to be honest. And I mean that in the sudden intensity of your post coming of like something a troll would do. I didn’t post anything in this thread until the one saying you’re the one coming across like the petty bully pissing on everything(which is still true), but you’re acting like I’m the one who said the comment that pissed you off. That anon was simply stating that the people who keep on with the debunked Age of Ultron wank look foolish(also true), and you called them a cunt in response. You took this from 0 to 100 in a millisecond, for seemingly no good reason. And you’re definitely the instigator here, make no mistake.

Do I wish people could talk in this comm without constant personal attacks and passive aggressive behavior? Definitely. I just had a terrible interaction with a user who decided to be an asshole for no reason based on the most innocuous comment, and it was stupid and frustrating. And they weren’t the first. They won’t be the last. And that sucks. It sucks that you can never predict when anything you say will be met with derision here, for no real reason.

But sometimes, it is warranted. Age of Ultron wank kind of warrants derision. And you were the one who decided to act like an asshole for no reason in this case. If you run into people acting derisive with every comment you make, literally every one like you implied, then the anon above me is right: If everyone is an asshole, you’re probably the real asshole.

Also, not a be a spelling fascist, but it’s “clique” not “click”, in the context you’re using it. I’m not correcting you for any reason other than so you can be aware in the future. That doesn’t mean I’m not prepared for you to take it the wrong way regardless.

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