[ SECRET POST #5499 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5499 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

NA The whole concept of 'gender non-conforming' is bollocks. There isn't any way to conform to gender in the first place without assuming gender = a certain set of personality traits, interests and life choices. I'm sick of defending myself just because I am an engineer who doesn't dress 'femininely'. No, I am not non-binary, no I'm not in denial or phobic, I just know i'm a cis woman okay so fuck off.

How have we gone backwards on this subject???

[(Anonymous)]

As long as gender expectations exist, so will gender nonconformity, like it or not. A girl with cropped hair is gender nonconforming. A boy who wears dresses is gender nonconforming. These are neutral statements. We do not live in the genderless utopia you think we do if you sincerely believe gender nonconforming isn't real uwu

[(Anonymous)]

Gender expectations are not gender though. If people were saying gender expectation non conformity then there wouldn't be an issue. Gender non-conformity however, makes it sound as if traits were inherent to a person's actual gender. If you don't see how that's a problem, then I can't help you and I suspect nobody can.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes dear, I'm sure it's very hard to have everyone assume you're nonbinary because you're an engineer. Nonbinaries are so everywhere these days, it's so rare for anyone to stop and consider that a cis-woman looking person in a male-dominated field who doesn't wear froofy dresses might just be a cis woman. You should spread the awareness by telling your story to r/thathappened.

[(Anonymous)]

Ah yes I forgot, it's only an issue to be misgendered by people if you're trans or NB. Everyone else it just bounces off of us.

[(Anonymous)]

imagine if you lived your life not looking for ways to feel victimized