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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-02-07 06:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #5512 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5512 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
No, you were right the first time. Enough lesbians in fandom who aren't TERFs are like that. It's terrible for the lesbians who aren't, but me and other friends I have in fandom (including other lesbians who ship M/M) have been burned too many times. If I can't see evidence that someone with a lesbian flag in their icon won't attack you for wanting to discuss men or nonbinary characters occasionally, I'm gonna stay far away from them.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 08:44 am (UTC)(link)
ngl as a bi woman i won't date lesbians anymore for this very reason. some of them are insanely rabid about their hatred of anything non-female.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
As a lesbian, yeah I don’t blame you. As someone said upthread “Not all lesbians are TERFs, but most TERFs are lesbians”. And as someone that hates TERFs and transphobia, that’s something that I’ve come across enough to know that that saying holds a lot of truth, so I have to be on the watch for that kind of awful behavior from certain lesbians I meet.

Not to mention the awful tendency for biphobia that an unfortunate amount of lesbians have, which is obviously terrible. I swear we’re not all like that, but again, I don’t blame you.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-09 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
yeah i've had people get really nasty at me for mentioning that i've dated guys in the past. which is like... yes??? i'm bi??? that means i'm attracted to both men and women??? they act like you're tainted if you've touched a man, which is ridiculous.

it's happened to me enough that i just don't want to risk it anymore.