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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-02-07 06:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #5512 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5512 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
You can shoo the lesbi- er, TERFs away by giving half of the pairing a dick and writing graphic PiV sex scenes.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
TERFs are rarely lesbians, they are mostly cishet white men. Or cishet middle class english journalists.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
Yep, that's who is reading and leaving praise for femslash, white dudes.

I would believe people think TERFs aren't cis4cis lesbians if fewer people complained about "TERF" lesbians.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
ah yes, that famous lesbian, JK Rowling

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 06:56 am (UTC)(link)
Most lesbians aren't TERFs.

Most transphobes who aren't TERFs aren't lesbians.

Most TERFs are lesbians.

All of these truths can and do coexist.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 10:57 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, when I used to write fic, a significant number of readers of my f/f content were guys. I wrote for several anime fandoms in which the demographic leaned heavily white dudes.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
uh, no, terf lesbians are 100% a thing, i've encountered a bunch of them in real life.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no, I'm a lesbian and sadly there are plenty of lesbian TERFs around. A lot of them are still cis middle-class English journalists, though.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
I sincerely doubt that many cishet white men are radical feminists of any stripe.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
"TERF" is not actually an accurate name. Plenty of people who are involved in the movement in question aren't radical feminists at all.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
ah yes the cishet white men trolling femslash niches, there are so many of them...>.>

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
Bad post

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
No, you were right the first time. Enough lesbians in fandom who aren't TERFs are like that. It's terrible for the lesbians who aren't, but me and other friends I have in fandom (including other lesbians who ship M/M) have been burned too many times. If I can't see evidence that someone with a lesbian flag in their icon won't attack you for wanting to discuss men or nonbinary characters occasionally, I'm gonna stay far away from them.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 08:44 am (UTC)(link)
ngl as a bi woman i won't date lesbians anymore for this very reason. some of them are insanely rabid about their hatred of anything non-female.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
As a lesbian, yeah I don’t blame you. As someone said upthread “Not all lesbians are TERFs, but most TERFs are lesbians”. And as someone that hates TERFs and transphobia, that’s something that I’ve come across enough to know that that saying holds a lot of truth, so I have to be on the watch for that kind of awful behavior from certain lesbians I meet.

Not to mention the awful tendency for biphobia that an unfortunate amount of lesbians have, which is obviously terrible. I swear we’re not all like that, but again, I don’t blame you.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-09 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
yeah i've had people get really nasty at me for mentioning that i've dated guys in the past. which is like... yes??? i'm bi??? that means i'm attracted to both men and women??? they act like you're tainted if you've touched a man, which is ridiculous.

it's happened to me enough that i just don't want to risk it anymore.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know if the people messaging me were lesbians or not, but I really didn't need essays on what it means to be a 'real woman' and how trans women should be harmed, then proceeded to say how they liked my work in the messages.