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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-02-07 06:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #5512 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5512 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
TERFs ruin everything. Fuck the TERFS. They are more like FARTs anyway.
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[personal profile] dancingmouse 2022-02-08 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Fat Ass Rollicking Tarts?

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
Feminism Appropriating Radical Transphobes.

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Don't bring fat asses into this. Fat asses are great.

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
Yikes. I'm sorry you're having a hard time, OP.
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[personal profile] mishey22 2022-02-08 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry about the issues you've faced :(

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
If this about that post from a couple of days ago, I get it now.

I read femslash sometimes, I have some femslash ships, I'm bi in RL, but I prefer to stay in the M/M and het communities in fandom for the exact reason you outlined. Or at least, that's one reason. I'd almost forgotten it was a thing, I'd been so successful at avoiding that element

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
You can shoo the lesbi- er, TERFs away by giving half of the pairing a dick and writing graphic PiV sex scenes.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
TERFs are rarely lesbians, they are mostly cishet white men. Or cishet middle class english journalists.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
Yep, that's who is reading and leaving praise for femslash, white dudes.

I would believe people think TERFs aren't cis4cis lesbians if fewer people complained about "TERF" lesbians.

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
uh, no, terf lesbians are 100% a thing, i've encountered a bunch of them in real life.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no, I'm a lesbian and sadly there are plenty of lesbian TERFs around. A lot of them are still cis middle-class English journalists, though.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
I sincerely doubt that many cishet white men are radical feminists of any stripe.

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
ah yes the cishet white men trolling femslash niches, there are so many of them...>.>

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
Bad post

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
No, you were right the first time. Enough lesbians in fandom who aren't TERFs are like that. It's terrible for the lesbians who aren't, but me and other friends I have in fandom (including other lesbians who ship M/M) have been burned too many times. If I can't see evidence that someone with a lesbian flag in their icon won't attack you for wanting to discuss men or nonbinary characters occasionally, I'm gonna stay far away from them.

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know if the people messaging me were lesbians or not, but I really didn't need essays on what it means to be a 'real woman' and how trans women should be harmed, then proceeded to say how they liked my work in the messages.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
At first I read that as multi-level marketing ships and was like, "wait, those have fandoms now?"

I can't understand people who send death threats over fictional or fandom shit. They must be very immature and haven't figured out that the world doesn't revolve around their personal preferences.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry OP.

It's terrible and not fair at all that you had your safe space intruded upon like that, it's especially difficult for me to hear that it happened to you with your hobby too. I can't imagine how difficult it is for you, OP. Hang in there, and I hope you can find other avenues to create art that makes you feel valid and safe.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
are you receiving threatening messages anonymously? if you have the option to turn off anonymous messages to your inbox, i strongly suggest you do that. i know you can do this for tumblr accounts, not sure about twitter (i don't use twitter.)

if you're not receiving these messages anonymously, i strongly suggest you report the messages and the users who are making them to the site staff.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 04:58 am (UTC)(link)
Seconded.
I on twitter you can turn off messages from people you don't know
I understand that this thing still poisoned the whole fan experience and it's better to go away. But we still should make shitty people's life harder

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh I've had anon turned off for years. Unfortunately that didn't stop people who were on a mission to let me know exactly what they think any ways (I remember one who felt justified on telling me to off myself because someone who shipped both slash and femslash MUST be a pervert creep -_-)

I tried reporting one person who wrote up a really messed up message on tumblr but it didn't do anything. Thankfully once I blocked them that was pretty much the last I heard from them.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-08 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
Holy shit, I’m so sorry you had to go through that OP! So many people are such miserable assholes who seem to only want to make everyone else as miserable as they are.

As an aside, I thought you meant you drew MLM ships for Femmeslash February, and I was a bit confused. But then I realized you meant that you just drew MLM ship art in general.
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[personal profile] goodbyebird 2022-02-08 07:13 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you've been experiencing this. As someone mentioned below, turn off anonymous messages/comments. Most of these people are nasty cowards. Out the rest. Put their nasty in the public eye so people can see what they are. As for death threats, report and hopefully they lose their account.

I hope you can get back to your fandom love and find a kind and supportive community.
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