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Which thing, which you could have, or should have, or were expected to do today, did you just NOT DO and enjoy NOT doing?
Today, I did NOT let myself be bullied into "just tasting" a meal at a meddling aunt's place. Firm "no thank you" and then sat back and enjoyed my coffee. Just coffee. Nice coffee. Coffee understands.

Well, I'd say grocery shop, but that's usually dependent upon my mood and I'm the one who set the expectation on myself, lol.

Y'know what? Good on you for standing up for yourself! I've let myself be bullied into eating too many meals that I either hated or was outright allergic to (and yes, the person bullying me knew I was allergic).

Edited 2022-03-21 22:33 (UTC)

Thanks for the support :) Sticking to my guns even though it's so ingrained that refusing is RUDE is very, very difficult.
I can't even imagine the added difficulty of an allergy - and wow, screw whoever bullied you into basically poisoning yourself, that's messed up.

NA - Every time someone talks about this I'm always so bemused, because it seems to be a pretty common experience, and yet I have absolutely no experience of it. Like, I don't have much experience of being pressured to eat, in the first place, but also, if someone were pressuring me to eat that would be weird and kind of rude, and I would feel kind of annoyed and also just baffled, like, No??? I said 'No thank you' because I don't want to. Why are you being weird about it???

Is the whole "food pressure" thing cultural, or just specific to some families or? I 100% believe people who express struggling with this, and you have my sympathies. I just have zero experience of it myself.

Oh - and perfect icon for your reply! <3

...I'm a people pleaser, so I very much hated pretty much everything I did for work today and then apologized to people for not getting it all done faster. :/

So far I have NOT taken a walk around the trails despite it being 72 degrees and sunny, because my legs ache from walking around there twice yesterday (once in cosplay) and my guts hate me for trying to hydrate myself and I still feel wonky from no sleep last night + too much coffee this morning. But I am not enjoying not taking a walk. I feel guilty for slacking.

Skipped a weights set. I know it is on my schedule, still skipped it, so what if it sets my rehab back by even a single day, just wasn't feeling it.

Every day skipped is a week set back.

bullshit lmao wtf is this take

NAYRT - This is blatantly false, and also, fuck right the fuck off.

Did not buy gardening supplies. I'll need them eventually but I'm trying to space my spendings out a bit.

Resigned from my job. I am doing it tomorrow morning. Trying to decide if I should only work until April 1 or April 5 (I am taking Monday April 4 off).

I got a text from a co-worker asking if I could take their shift today (night shift, 7pm - 7am). And normally I would have said yes, even though I just worked 3 12 hour shifts in a row (my usual). If they'd have texted me at noon or earlier, I probably WOULD have said yes, 'cause - overtime.

But it was nearly 5 pm, and I am in my fleecy pjs and...I said no. HA! Just wanted to be home on my first day off and chill and eat my pizza and do fuck-all (except for ALL THE LAUNDRY as I also dog-sat the dog over the weekend for the exSO, and every bit of my bedding needs washed to remove eau de dog).

I am kind of the person at work who says 'yes' to any and every extra shift 'cause I like the OT pay, but this time...no.

I did not work today. I played hooky because it was in the 70s and I still have 3 weeks till my deadline. A good day to walk a few miles and then rake my lawn instead of work.

I really need to go to the dentist for an f'ed up tooth, but I put it off again. It's in the back...

Also, there's a new job I might apply to, but I'm so, so burned out.

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