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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-03-27 04:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #5560 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5560 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-27 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Still a shitty toxic attitude, the same one that leads to all the "men can't be raped by women because they are stronger and could just fight back if they didn't want it" crap.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-27 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
No, it isn't. At it's very core it's just plain and simple fact.

The two things are not equivalent at all, what a load of bullcrap. Men can obviously be raped.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-27 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Doesn't change that the very fact you cite is used to dismiss male victims of female rape or domestic violence all the damn time. That is also a fact and no amount of you pretending it isn't will change that.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-27 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not pretending it isn't. What I'm saying is, DESPITE THAT, what I've said is true because, well, science basically. And that even if it gets misused, you cannot use its misuse to deny it. It's just the truth.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-27 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I never said it's not true, but the fact remains that what I said also is an issue. Both can be true at the same time.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-27 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
So basically, your entire comment and point is an exercise in whataboutism presented as outrage. What a waste of everyone's time.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-27 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
No, my point still is that the assumption that sexual messages are okay when sent by women and creepy when sent by men just because men are generally stronger is a toxic double standard.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2022-03-27 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
It isn't wrong to point out that men can and are raped, but it also isn't wrong to point out that most rapes are done to women by men. Both those things are true. Rape of men does happen, and should be treated the same as any rape when it happens. But disproportionately women are raped more and that also needs to be dealt with because it is reality.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-27 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)
That wasnt the point. The point is that "this isn't as bad because men are stronger than women and therefore it's only threatening if men do it" is part of the toxic attitude that men can't be victims of sexual or physical abuse by women because they're stronger.
Nowhere did I say men are raped as or more often than women.