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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-03-27 04:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #5560 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5560 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-28 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
JEFF

His video was so fun...

Really, for me, it's just so different because in a broad, general sense... like, men enjoy this in a way women don't?? It's not just the work that would go into curating thirst tweets for a lady celeb that weren't gross or violent, it's that male sexual attention from randos puts women on edge and is processed in relation to every bad experience with every other unsolicited bit of male sexual attention that a woman has had in her life.

Men tend to not have a lifetime of negative experiences with being sexually objectified. Granted, handsome actor men get validated on their attractiveness-- regular guys often find it difficult to imagine being upset by someone expressing attraction because they don't have that experience and think of it as something flattering rather than something dehumanizing. And on the other hand, my mom finds it mind-boggling that a man could be pleased rather than upset to have a stranger make flirtatious comments.

So, basically... for these guys, it's a sometimes-flustering/embarrassing-but-ultimately-all-in-good-fun experience rather than harassment.