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case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2022-04-07 04:51 pm
[ SECRET POST #5571 ]
⌈ Secret Post #5571 ⌋
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Re: Clarification by OP
(Anonymous) 2022-04-08 04:37 am (UTC)(link)I never said or implied it was a deep thing, just that your clarification muddled your secret to me. I get it more now, but it’s still kinda all over place, if I’m honest. Maybe because this isn’t something that would make me think someone is an asshole. That doesn’t mean I don’t still get bad vibes or instantly dislike some people for whatever reason. I try not to judge them based on my surface feelings. But sometimes it’s hard when someone pisses me off enough, and I fail to judge fairly(although I’m not saying you’re being unfair in your secret just because I don’t completely understand or agree). So I guess I’m saying I get it even though I don’t feel the same in this instance?
“Justified but an asshole” is a thing, and is plausible. But it also makes your reasoning for considering him an asshole still strange to me because you think the biggest part of this specific routine(the cost of college) is something he’s justified in thinking. I get that that’s just the human brain and the opinions that form despite other reasoning sometimes dictating other things, and I’m not asking for your tally of justified opinions. Because I wasn’t asking for you to justify your opinions, just explain them a bit further. And now that you have, it still doesn’t make sense to me in general. Because this routine seems like one I never expected anyone to think he was an asshole for, or to be infuriated by, like another anon said. Later things he’s said and done? Understandable even if I don’t agree. But this? I just didn’t expect it is all.
But it’s not my place or right to judge others personal opinions and feelings, so I shouldn’t have in the first place. Again, that’s completely my bad. And I’m also not trying to change your opinion, so sorry if I gave that vibe. I’m (clearly) very bad both at getting my point across and at getting other people’s points and perspectives.
It’s fine if we never understand each other on this. And you can feel free to ignore me and this comment. You have no obligation to indulge me or anyone else just because I ask questions. Making secrets may open you up to people wanting to know why you think and feel the way you do. But you absolutely don’t have to answer.