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(Anonymous) 2022-05-07 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)Spinster... Spinster was a well paying job older unmarried women would take up and be able to earn enough to support themselves. Like everything in society, once you're past child bearing age, women became nothing but an object of scorn. (See also: witches.) I doubt being a Spinster actually was an unhappy ending for every woman. Sure, some probably regretted not marrying and having kids, but I doubt everybody felt that way.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-07 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)Austen novels contain more than a few female characters who live somewhat precariously because of this - Fanny in Mansfield Park/, who gets sent to live with her wealthy aunt and is treated like a glorified maid/companion. The Misses Bates in Emma, who are poor and rely upon the generosity of their neighbors, and Jane Fairfax, who has to take positions as a governess to get by. Elinor and Marianne Dashwood (and their widowed) mother in Sense and Sensibility have to scrape by on a small income because their half-brother won't support them financially, and they're grateful to their cousin Sir John Middleton for giving them cheap rent of a cottage.
And of course, Austen herself had to pinch pennies and combine households with her mother, sister (and later a friend?), moving around to places they could afford until one of her brothers let them live in a cottage on his estate. That's after she turned down an offer of marriage that would've made her financially secure, if potentially very unhappy.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-08 12:09 am (UTC)(link)Georgiana's position seems most similar to Emma Woodhouse's in that she has her own fortune and wouldn't have to marry. But I would assume there would still be a societal expectation/pressure to marry because it's all about making alliances when you're from prominent families. And even if a woman didn't need to marry for money/support, you're right in that society wasn't really set up for single unmarried women. It's a generalization, but it really was all about getting a husband.
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Exactly! Spinster as a 'derisive' term is a fairly 'modern' interpretation. It literally meant a low income earning job in the textiles world- combing, carding, spinning, of wool, by unmarried women, generally of lower classes. It once had the same connotations as 'bachelor' did and does.
I think Georgiana would have been content being a spinster until the right person came along.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-08 12:44 am (UTC)(link)My new sleepytime dream, thanks!
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