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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-06-11 04:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #5636 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5636 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Met Gala]


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[Mr Ballen on Youtube]


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[Satoru Gojo from Jujutsu Kaisen]


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[Twisted Kaiju Theater]


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(Anonymous) 2022-06-12 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
When is an asexual couple just an asexual couple, and when is a couple asexual because it's a result of the Powers That Be thinking queer sexual desire is gross and unmarketable?

I've literally never seen executives/whoever claim that a couple is asexual because they think same-sex sexual relationships are gross, because there are no intentionally asexual relationships in anything. I'm not talking about things where there's no sex because TPTB think it's gross so they just avoid it, and then fans come along after the fact and choose to interpret it as asexual. I'm sure that happens all the time, and yeah, it does seem like the result of homophobia and it's not cool.

What I'm talking about is characters who are deliberately written as asexual, and are clearly stated to be asexual (regardless of what words are used because like the secret mentions, there probably aren't many fandoms where it would make sense to actually use the label). That's incredibly rare. And the existence of a romantic relationship that's intentionally non-sexual because that's how the characters want it to be is literally non-existent in media. It's a different thing than "oh, this show doesn't have any sex scenes, I guess I'll interpret it as asexual", and the difference matters, IMO.

All that said, I do understand that there will be people who will think it's the result of homophobia or censorship or whatever no matter what's said about the relationship or how it's written. Given that, I think the ideal situation would probably be something where there are multiple canon queer relationships, and the intentionally asexual couple can stand in contrast to the others whose relationships ARE sexual. (I'm thinking maybe the new version of Queer As Folk could do this, because I can't imagine anything else that would have more than one canon queer ship.)

(Anonymous) 2022-06-12 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
(I'm thinking maybe the new version of Queer As Folk could do this, because I can't imagine anything else that would have more than one canon queer ship.)


Just as an aside, Our Flag Means Death has more than one canon queer ship and I can easily see more developing, there could easily be an intentionally ace one in the future.

(Anonymous) 2022-06-12 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Ah, yeah, I forgot about that show. I haven't seen it yet (but will eventually because I've heard great things) but I have a friend who loves it and I know is rooting for a canonically asexual couple. I think in that case it could definitely work since there are already other queer couples so it's not as big a deal if one is asexual.