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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-06-24 05:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #5649 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5649 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Ted Lasso]



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05. [SPOILERS for Jurassic World Dominion]




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06. [SPOILERS for Jurassic World Dominion]




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07. [WARNING for discussion of marital infidelity]




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08. [WARNING for discussion of incest]



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09. [WARNING for discussion of child abuse, sexualization of children]





























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(Anonymous) 2022-06-25 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't really understand what people mean when they say they like it as a kink but not as a trope of romance

For me I would say it's basically, what is the genre of the fic? If it's a smutty fic that's written for the purposes of being hot, infidelity can work because infidelity can be hot. I don't necessarily care about the emotional connection between the characters for those types of fics. That's not the point.

On the other hand, if it's a romance fic that's about interpersonal drama and is trying to get us onside with the romantic relationship with the two characters, that's where I don't think infidelity works. Because I want to like the characters in a romance fic and root for them to get together and that's nearly impossible for me to do when infidelity enters the picture.

(Anonymous) 2022-06-25 06:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, okay, thank you for explaining. :)

So you and I are polar opposites in our taste then. Infidelity is completely unhot to me, so without the strong emotional connection between the character, infidelity is nothing but squick for me.

I have to root for the characters. Their relationship has to be such that it feels wrong they're not together, and I have to believe that they can be happy together for the long haul--if they can get their shit figured out and stop being their worst selves out of weakness brought on by desperation.

(Anonymous) 2022-06-25 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

On the other hand, if it's a romance fic that's about interpersonal drama and is trying to get us onside with the romantic relationship with the two characters, that's where I don't think infidelity works.

It's different for me because I want to read about the verrrrry intense romantic love, the kind that's so wild and desperate you'll throw morality out the window and burn your life down just to have a chance. You might feel guilty about it (I like the angst) but not enough to stop, because you >can't.

(Anonymous) 2022-06-26 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
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