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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2009-04-13 05:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #829 ]


⌈ Secret Post #829 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Nostalgia Critic]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 13 pages, 210 secrets from Secret Submission Post #119.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 - take it to comments ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
123. http://i40.tinypic.com/20j1xqx.jpg

[identity profile] ecctv.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Ughhhh its so long....

dont care.

(Anonymous) 2009-04-13 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
If you don't care, why comment? It seems pointlessly mean.

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[identity profile] biocaam.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Christ, OP, way to get too wrapped up in fandom.

[identity profile] rosehiptea.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
At least you realize you've taken it too far.

I've had a bad reaction to canon developments before. I just had to take a deep breath and remind myself that they are all fictional characters and I can imagine them being however I want. Also I allowed myself to vent about it to my friends, just not to get wanky in public.

Though I'm sure you've tried that.

OP

(Anonymous) 2009-04-13 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I have tried. But you know what, writing the secret in and of itself was therapeutic, as is seeing other people's suggestions and ability to relate (even on a smaller more normal scale)

So thank you very much <3 Your comment has been a help.

[identity profile] azure15.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I heard a really nice quote from a fandom person once that totally helped concerning ships that were canon, so maybe it will help you? I suck so I can't remember who said it, or the exact words, but it was basically;

"The pairings in the show are just the preferences of the author in that universe, just like how a fanfic writer would choose to write about their favourite pairing."

(Anonymous) 2009-04-13 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
That is a really good quote, and does help a bit. Thank you for sharing! <3!

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[identity profile] caterfree10.livejournal.com 2009-04-14 06:11 am (UTC)(link)
That is an excellent quote! Excuse me while I post that in my giant quotes file. <3

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[identity profile] ali-wildgoose.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Now I'm really really curious what fandom you're in!

Also, you know, we can't always help the things we care about -- what's important is that you recognize that you aren't comfortable with the way you feel about the text, and are trying your best to work around it. That's the key, you know? Self-awareness is a pretty great thing. <3

(Anonymous) 2009-04-13 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
$10 that it's the Avatar fandom.

(Anonymous) 2009-04-14 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
God damn it, my original comment didn't go through. Anyway, to satisfy your curiosity a little bit because I have been in your shoes, I checked and it's not any fandom you have listed. It is definitely not Avatar either, as I haven't even watched it.

But thanks for your comment. I am feeling better! <3

[identity profile] pkbitchgirl.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't have any pairings that I hate that much, not even McKay/Keller in Stargate Atlantis, that causes me to fall asleep instead
Your font is making me feel like throwing up though

Along the lines of what a couple others in this thread are suggesting...

[identity profile] ember-reignited.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
IDK, my BFF the Fiction Identity Postulate (http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/SugarWiki/FictionIdentityPostulate)?

Re: Along the lines of what a couple others in this thread are suggesting...

(Anonymous) 2009-04-14 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
OP here (and just for the record, the anon posts above that sound OP are me, I just forgot to put it in the subject line. Apologies! Logged out LJ is moving REALLY slow, and I've had to retype comments several times.)

Ahem, back on topic. Wow, that was a really, really interesting read, and it TOTALLY helps to put things into perspective. I can't thank you enough for that. Totally bookmarking it!

[identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
It seems to me that what you were reacting to was less what actually happened in canon and more anticipation of the fallout in fandom. Since there had already been trolling, I would imagine you'd be worried that the shippers of the canon ship would become rather insufferable. I've been in situations like that, so I can understand that reaction.

However, at some point you just have to weather the bashing and hold your head up and hope that their bad behavior will out. Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't, but in the meantime you will have continued to have a nice time in your own way.

OP

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[identity profile] cleopancake.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)
recently became canon + lack of development= Freffy?
OR
I'm too obesessed with Skins. Which is probably the right answer XD

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[identity profile] kristenell.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
It sounds to me like, you probably need to take a step back and maybe take a break, I find that helps when I become to wrapped up in things where I start having thoughts and behaviors that make me uncomfortable. Getting some distance for a bit is probably the best thing to do. If a pairing makes you want to vomit that is a huge sign of overinvestment and isn't healthy.

That said, if the fandom you are talking about is the one that I am thinking of, it does go both ways and the non-canon side gave just as much as they got and there are probably people on the other side that feel the exact way that you do.

Edit: and seeing from your comment, it is not what I was thinking of so disregard the second paragraph.
Edited 2009-04-14 00:24 (UTC)

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(Anonymous) 2009-04-13 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I know how it is to react horribly to something fandom-related. Especially when it's something I KNOW is not worth getting upset about, but I feel sick over it anyway...I haven't actually vomited, but still, I've felt a bit sick.

You have my sympathy.

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[identity profile] mcwicca.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG, I'm sorry that this upsets you, but I loled SO. HARD. Like, hysterically.
ext_40256: (Avatar - Zuko ew)

[identity profile] kartos.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
LoL all I can think of is Kaatang...

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(Anonymous) 2009-04-14 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
Lost... right? Or is it just me who hates Suliet? lol

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(Anonymous) 2009-04-14 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Why does this secret make me think of Sam/Ruby? If, by any chance, that's the pairing, for what it's worth it made me pretty nauseated, too, lol. Any chance that you were suffering from a little stomach ailment at the time and just didn't realize it? True story: the X-Files episode 'Home' actually made me throw up and I thought that was so weird because I don't normally get that queasy over things like that...turned out I was pregnant, I just hadn't realized it yet. :)

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this calls for 20 questions...

[identity profile] winderpin.livejournal.com 2009-04-14 07:31 am (UTC)(link)
...because now i'm seriously curious what fandom this is. it's not live action and it's not avatar, so is it made in the east or the west?

also, on a more serious note, holy crap, anon o_O; i dunno, when i was reading jane eyre, the moment when edward rochester flings himself on the sofa and cries like a baby gave me a stomachache, so you're not alone! (although it's not really on the same scale.) the fact that this is so atypical of your normal attitude in/towards your fandom makes me wonder if you were just having a really bad day/were already queasy and this just tipped you over. whether or not that's the case, i hope you feel better ^^; and if you really can't get it off your mind, you can always write an essay and explicate all the reasons for your feelings on the development. so long as you keep a level tone, you'll probably get some good convos out of it to boot.

Re: this calls for 20 questions...

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[identity profile] angelinmarble.livejournal.com 2009-04-14 11:17 am (UTC)(link)
Sweetie, I had exactly the same reaction to Sam/Ruby in Supernatural. Pretty much to the letter. She jumped on him and I started running for the bathroom. And, to make things worse, my best friend called me (and she is a Sam/Ruby shipper) and laughed down the phone line. (It probably goes without saying that I hung up on her).

So yeah, I've always considered myself a 'sane' fangirl too, so all I could really do was grin and bear it, and start looking for new fandoms to get into, where there weren't characters I utterly detested.

Sorry I'm not much help to you, but at least you know you're not alone!

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