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Re: Vent/whine thread
(Anonymous) 2022-07-12 01:51 am (UTC)(link)Lmaoooo omg it really reads like that?? I'm honestly just mad I don't allow myself to dress in a manner I'd consider slutty/in a way that is generally found attractive or hot. Like why can't I be a babe too??? I only allow it like once or twice a year.
Re: Vent/whine thread
(Anonymous) 2022-07-12 02:00 am (UTC)(link)Lmaooo it really does, especially the bit about how your mother would never let you go out of the house like that, and some of them look like schoolgirl skirts, and they're just so flimsy and they're almost nude under there, and omg what if she had a big butt, it would be so indecent, the skirt could fly up just like that... *drool*
Especially when you mention you wear a leather miniskirt right after, lol.
I think you should wear what you want! I do think there's pressure on young women to dress attractive/hot so if you really don't want to, you shouldn't! But if you really do and you just have conditioning that won't let you, that's a good thing to overcome.
Re: Vent/whine thread
(Anonymous) 2022-07-12 02:45 am (UTC)(link)Oh no! There's not supposed to be *drool* lol
It's just I grew up wearing a uniform up until I went to college/the whole plaid skirt rolling it up when I was young so it would look cute and gross men trying to catch glimpses/videos underneath the skirts etc etc so I guess I just have feelings and associations about the plaid skirts and not feeling right about wearing it some ten to twelve years later.
And about the lack of a butt or not, that's a little more about me having a little something to sit on so I definitely can't wear that kind of skirt without something underneath lmao
Definitely agree about people being able to wear what they want -- and not be judged for it (like I don't want to think this way and be hater!). There's definitely some conditioning I gotta work through lol. If I ever do/or wear an outfit I find hot (which I plan to, this fall, shoot maybe this summer!), I will post here and hope you see my post, nonnie! Lol
Re: Vent/whine thread
(Anonymous) 2022-07-12 08:53 am (UTC)(link)I understand your point of view better now, thank you! (though I still think it was funny how accidentally salacious your post came off to me)
I never went to a school that had uniforms, so that's a whole level of pressure and stereotypes I missed out on.