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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-08-08 05:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #5694 ]


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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-09 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Could it perhaps mean that they expect you to talk about it, let them help you with making friends or invite them over?

Being a pretty lonely person both online and IRL (perhaps even more online nowadays which says a lot lol) this has happened to me before and years later I was told that I was unapproachable - I lived the farthest from my group of online friends and have social phobia to boost which makes me extra shy/impersonal. I wasn't going for "unapproachable" but my online friends felt that about me.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-09 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Unfortunately it's just not feasible to hang out with them :( Most of them live in the US and I'm from Europe. One of them lives in the same country as me, but even then it's in a completely different city and he has a full time job, so hopping over to help me out is not on the table.
I don't think they mean anything by it, I think it's just an easy thing to forget since it is pretty unusual to have literally no one to rely on. Still, I wish they would express sympathy instead of me having to pivot to reassuring them.