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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-08-08 05:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #5694 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5694 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-09 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Like, they could just assume

They could just gloss over

Or, you could say specifically what you mean so they don't have to "assume" or "gloss over" you saying something that hurts their feelings? My mom does this kind of shit to me all the time and then says "oh, you knew what I meant" when it would've been just as easy to be more careful with her word choice.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-09 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Do you perhaps think that having issues with your mom leads you to projecting those same issues on strangers on the internet?

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-09 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
No, I have issues with people saying something other than what they mean, and then getting annoyed that other people can't read their minds and just "assume" (your word) that the specific words they used actually were supposed to mean something else.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-09 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
Okay.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-09 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT - Dude you are projecting so hard and AYRT doesn't deserve it. When someone is being vulnerable and expressing a fairly serious issue that they are struggling with, making it about you by jumping on a shallow surface interpretation of what they're saying is not the way to go.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-09 04:27 am (UTC)(link)
Bruh.