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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-09-01 09:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #5718 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5718 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-09-02 09:56 am (UTC)(link)
This is so weird to me, please explain it to me like I'm 5

I don't understand how pedophilia is worse than murder. I really don't. I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and I want the people who did that to me to suffer indefinitely - and I still don't think it's as bad as murder. I'm glad I'm still alive. My rapists are horrible people but they would be MUCH WORSE if they'd ended my life.

That's how I feel about my experience in reality. In fantasy, movies/books/media are so good for exploring taboos, the things you can't say aloud. And horror movie fans are watching it for catharsis of their biggest fears, right? That's certainly the appeal for me. Horror is about facing taboos head-on, and it's for people who have survived bad things.

(Anonymous) 2022-09-02 11:26 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT but the answer is because anything sexual and bad is worse than anything nonsexual and bad, and because pretending you care about children more than anything makes you look like a good person.

(Anonymous) 2022-09-02 12:26 pm (UTC)(link)
DA
I also think murder is worse than rape because murder is so final. At least if a person is raped, they've been left alive to recover- and recovery is possible. You can't return after being murdered!

(Anonymous) 2022-09-02 03:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Ayrt
Maybe because CSA is a fucking personal matter to me. Jesus christ the replies the my comment.

(Anonymous) 2022-09-03 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
You really just ignored AYRT saying they're a CSA survivor too, huh. It's worse because it's personal to you, you and nobody else in the world has had personal experience and might see their experience differently than you do!

(Anonymous) 2022-09-03 03:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Ayrt
I actually didn't read the full comment - that was my fault. I read the ones above and just saw red. I wouldn't have responded like this if I had read the full comment. My apologies to the anon I had responded to.

With that said and my head more screwed on, I'm still disgusted that people took umbrage with the fact that I find being attracted to a pedophile too far across a line. But whatever I guess.

(Anonymous) 2022-09-02 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
da

Idk, I’m a survivor too and I feel pretty much the opposite. I don’t know if it’s rational, and I certainly don’t begrudge you your feelings. It’s really cool if horror gives you a place to explore your fears in that way. But for me, it’s completely different. It’s for many reasons, a lot of which are personal and probably wouldn’t “convince” you of anything. I’d imagine that it comes down to very personal stuff for a lot of people whether that subject matter is something truly cathartic for them or something they never find interesting in a story, or somewhere between those extremes.