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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-09-04 04:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #5721 ]


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death tw

(Anonymous) 2022-09-04 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
So an uncle I didn't know well (dad's brother's wife's brother, so not a blood relative, never met him growing up) passed away yesterday.

I'm much closer to my aunt and at least chat with his son sometimes, and this is the first of my aunt's siblings to die and my cousin lost his mom when he was still a kid, but since I'm not a blood relative I won't be helping with paperwork or arrangements, which I know can be soul-sucking.

Has anyone on FS given food or meal delivery service as a bereavement gift, or used them generally? I figure it's the modern equivalent of a casserole it would be too hot for anyway, but I'm not sure which one(s?) to get. UberEats and Grubhub and Doordash are all available where they are, plus grocery delivery.

Which if any should I go with, or does anyone know other good options?

Re: death tw

(Anonymous) 2022-09-05 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
Personally I think this is sweet. I never had much to do with my own uncle on my dad’s side and his wife at the time didn’t even let us know he’d passed, and my grandparents and older brother passed when I was too young to process what was happening.

Probably check and see which groceries they need unless it’s the normal every day stuff like toilet paper. A nice hot meal that they didn’t have to prepare would be thoughtful.