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Re: Fandom red flags
(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 05:49 am (UTC)(link)Re: Fandom red flags
(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 06:50 am (UTC)(link)Reminders of purity and a need to go back to conservatism because someone is talking about a subject that makes you (the individual who is worried about too much sex/dark content) uncomfortable.
But NGL on the other side of that it feels like a similarly shame-y game when certain groups gripe on about "too much fluff" or "too much vanilla sex".
Like, I like to write cute couples falling in love more than a fucked up couple who do risky sex for thrills. But that doesn't mean I don't enjoy both!!!
Re: Fandom red flags
Better than the current purity trend (in my biased opinion) but still annoying.
Re: Fandom red flags
(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 10:42 am (UTC)(link)My ideal is a cute couple falling in love who do risky sex for thrills. These aren't mutually exclusive and the best is both elements together.
Re: Fandom red flags
(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 02:50 pm (UTC)(link)I've seen more fics where an author will have the sexy chapters aside (or in a separate fic/warn for the sexy times in the A/N).
I think it's nice, because sometimes I just want fluff with a touch of sexy, no full on sex, but other times, I want the full on. When I do,I don't want the warnings outside the original Explicit rating on the fic -- you're breaking my immersion lol. But it's definitely a newer development.
Re: Fandom red flags
Re: Fandom red flags
(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 08:13 am (UTC)(link)Explicit sex between consenting adult characters who are having a great time is in no way "dark" even if they're doing non-consent roleplay or other controversial kinks. Sex is normal, healthy, and fun. There is nothing inherently "dark" about PWP, smut, erotica, etc. Yes, it should be tagged and rated appropriately of course, but people who have meltdowns about catching even a glimpse of it really need to work on themselves, IMO.
Re: Fandom red flags
(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 11:29 am (UTC)(link)Yes. I see people conflating the two together and it's like, not all sex is dark.
Swear to fucking God "nuance" is becoming a fucking foreign idea to people.
Re: Fandom red flags
(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 03:00 pm (UTC)(link)There can be both, but neither is inherently the other. People need dictionaries out here, it would seem. I'm in fandoms that have both, but it's tagged appropriately.
Re: Fandom red flags
(Anonymous) 2022-10-14 06:20 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Fandom red flags
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