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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-10-20 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #5767 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5767 ⌋

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Re: Non-fandom secrets!

(Anonymous) 2022-10-21 01:06 pm (UTC)(link)
The reason it often gets brought up in discussions about FGM is because it would never get talked about otherwise. And anytime it IS brought up outside of it, it gets shouted down with "why are you complaining, FGM is much worse".

Re: Non-fandom secrets!

(Anonymous) 2022-10-21 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Nayrt

That’s not “the only way” it could get talked about, and it’s not a good excuse for derailing a topic. It does suck that some people shout about it when people try to discuss circumcision outside of topics surrounding FGM, but making it it’s own discussion is still the better way to discuss circumcision than derailing FGM discussions. It’s fine to bring it up as an also thing though, in my opinion. Like “I’m against FGM and circumcision”. But going “But what about circumcision??”, as if it’s a competition isn’t fine. It’s just as bad as the people shouting at people trying to talk about circumcision in it’s own discussion, because those people are also acting like it’s a competition. So if you get how frustrating it is to be shouted at for circumcision, you should get how frustrating it is for people trying to discuss FGM when someone tries to completely derail and take it over to talk about just circumcision, instead of naturally adding it to the conversation without trying to detract from the FGM topic.