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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-10-30 04:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #5777 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5777 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Fuck off is literally just more vehement "go away"

Idk how you have been interpreting fuck off all these years but I may see your problem here

(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt but seeing a screaming match filled with f-bombs in a subthread that has taken on a life of its own is toxic. Not everyone interprets "fuck off" as mildly as you do, and not everyone wants to see it in every other reply.

Certainly, I've seen worse that "fuck off" but I also don't see how that phrase can be taken in any way that's civil.

(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
It's definitely rude, but it's also definitely not a death threat.

(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
+1

That's the point where actual discussion becomes impossible.

(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 04:50 pm (UTC)(link)
That's kinda the point of a "fuck off" though

(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 08:13 am (UTC)(link)
You don't get to tell people to go away or that they are not welcome in general space. You get to decide if you hang around. That is all you get.

(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 11:57 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, you don’t get to decide what other people are allowed to say in general space. You get to decide what you’re allowed to say and you get to ignore people who don’t meet your standards. That’s all you get.

(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 12:52 pm (UTC)(link)
That only goes so far as not gatekeeping, once you start gate keeping, by telling people you disagree with to fuck off and leave, then you cross the line. Stop it.

(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

It’s not gatekeeping to tell anyone to fuck off. None of what you said is what gatekeeping means.

There was a secret talking about Elliot Page months ago, and someone replied: “I feel like they were indoctrinated into a cult :(“. Someone told that person to fuck off with their transphobia. Where’s the gatekeeping there? There isn’t any.

This is a disingenuous argument you’re using to try to validate feeling victimized by being told to fuck off. But that phrase isn’t magic. You aren’t suddenly not allowed to post anything when someone says it. Especially since most people here are anonymous anyways.

(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
+ trillions