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fandomsecrets2022-12-02 09:17 pm
[ SECRET POST #5810 ]
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 04:00 am (UTC)(link)but happy for OP if they've found stories they like more!
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 08:35 am (UTC)(link)It is, but the comment asking what the appeal of fully consensual A/B/O seemed to be scoffing at the idea that knotting and/or mpreg could be the reason some people like the trope. (At least, that's how I read the tone of that comment.) So AYRT is saying, no, that genuinely is one of the things that some people like about it.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 09:27 am (UTC)(link)A little less explicitly stated in OP's secret is that A/B/O gives you new types of queerness to explore, e.g. A/A fic or O/O fic or top!O/bottom!A.
Other elements common to A/B/O fic that I particularly love:
Scents as an integral part of human communication, both to distinguish whether characters are alphas, betas, or omegas, and to convey information about characters' emotional states.
Ruts and/or heats that lead to pining and desperation, e.g. an omega or alpha locking themself into a room with a bunch of sex toys to ride out their heat or rut alone, and the other half of the pairing is right outside the door, and they can both hear and smell each other and are going half-crazy with desire the entire time the heat or rut lasts.
Dominance/submission as an assumed part of A/O relationships, that the characters in the fic variously embrace or reject or have complicated feelings about, etc.
And then there are all the elements common to A/B/O fic that I'm not hugely interested in, but that some readers certainly are. The first response to your comment covered most of them. Then there's also mpreg--including in the context of f/m relationships, which is different from vanilla mpreg fic outside of A/B/O; fpreg in the context of f/f relationships; and dual genitalia (aka the big new trend I've been noticing in A/B/O in my fandoms).
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)I wish I could find another like it but yeah.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)That's basically what I was thinking. In my case, the D/s role essentialism decoupled from gender expectations, and the overlap with animal sex are both very appealing, but this *plot* just does nothing for me.
The idea of submissives having all this self-hate against their sexuality is a huge turn-off. And the "well, but it's okay if it's you," reminds me far too much of the internalized homophobia in a lot of early slashfic - which took pains to spell out that it's not that these excellent and very manly men were GAY in any broader sense, heavens no, they were sleeping with each other as the sole exception to their straightness because they were madly in love with each other.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)And crud, the above came out more harshly than I meant it. I don't want to denigrate what other people enjoy reading or writing, and hope the person you responded to finds the story they loved so much. It's just, I was reading this thread with a sense of "why don't I like ABO again? When it's got obscure kinky stuff that I go for in other sorts of stories?" and then someone mentioning this trope that seems like it's everywhere reminded me.
I guess part of my thing is that a lot of characters that I can see as submissive are not given to being emotionally out of control. They've already come to terms with their identity alone, by the time we see them in canon, and they own it. And ABO stories tend to shoe-horn them through the same vulnerable!virgin omega skeleton plot as everyone else.
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