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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-12-04 03:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #5812 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5812 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-12-05 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Well you certainly like to babble don't you.

Firstly, where in my comment have I said anything equivalent to:
'If you're over 30 and believe yourself to be on the same level with maturity and experience as high-schoolers, that doesn't really speak well of you.'?

Secondly, it's not preying to simply ask somebody out regardless of age gap if you're both adults. There's a whole lot of predatory behaviours that some people might use in that situation, but it's not a given.

Thirdly, yes people are still young at 18 but they're still adults. Not children. And with that comes some responsibility for your own actions. 'Tricked' into a relationship is a ridiculous description.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-05 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Do list me all the ways that an 18 year old is different from a 17 year old in terms of brain chemistry and experience. If you believe that a 17 year old is too young to make mature decisions with regards to entering a committed romantic relationship with a much older person, what gives you the impression that on their 18th birthday the necessary knowledge and experience will magically materialize inside their brain?

I was a vastly different person at 18 than I am now. So are most people. Anyone who claims otherwise is either a liar, or suffers from some kind of brain damage, because brain goes through massive changes in your 20s, and typically so does your life.