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(Anonymous) 2022-12-11 09:46 am (UTC)(link)It's been lovely seeing people understand where I'm coming from at last, because normally it seems to be a joke that some people's kinks are not possible IRL. I have seen people push for the most realism possible in regards to fic, and I was over here like "nooooo, please I need my escapism. :')" It's a 'different tastes for different folks' issue, but I'm grateful that people here are kind about it. Yeah, count me as another person who would also rather die than ever experience pregnancy. The comment about controlled fantasy resonates with me. Sometimes, it's just nice to explore with some degree of distance in the subject matter.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-11 12:12 pm (UTC)(link)For a while I had a lot of anxiety about whether I didn't "support" femslash/female characters/r63 because of misogyny/lesbophobia/transphobia, but nowadays I know myself well enough to know it's about escapism-- having a space in fiction where I don't have to think about my body, or people with bodies like mine.
It... kind of sucks sometimes because I feel like current queer fandom centers the presence of uplifting elements that we're supposed to identify with as the right way to do fandom, rather than the absence of distressing elements from our everyday lives. Which feels connected to how some people see fandom more as a space for activism than escapism.
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