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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-12-27 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #5835 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5835 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-12-28 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Feel like this is a context collapse thing, where there are multiple legitimate reactions in different contexts but on the Internet they all get merged into each other in ways that are uncomfortable and frustrating.

There's nothing wrong - IMO - with someone who is just coming to terms with the fact that their life is harder than other peoples' lives because their brain works in certain ways that other peoples' don't. That's a shitty reality of life. And when it's something you've been dealing with all your life, and you've just thought it was either normal or even worse that you were just worse at stuff than other people, it's OK to have an emotional reaction and deal with that.

Equally, at a certain point, people do have to pick themselves up and figure out how to deal with life anyway. And there are absolutely people who self-infantilize and use ADHD or whatever else as an excuse to simply not do things that they need to be able to do. And that is frustrating and shitty.

Ideally, both of those experiences should be able to exist at the same time. In practice, unfortunately, that's not the case.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-28 11:02 am (UTC)(link)
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